Thursday, June 18, 2009

Life will move along without any help (or notice) from me!

According to Ddonn's blog we are setting a record for no rain - I have just been enjoying the cooler but not really humid weather... This morning looked greyer but no rain!

We have had a LONG day...
everyone up and doing 'stuff' at 0700
took lunch to Grandma Sandy and Aunt Jennie
Grammy napped while Mommy and Aunt Jennie visited
Saars
Safeway... where Grammy sat in the food area with the sleeping boy while mommy shopped alone
Grammy used smelly paper to get the charcoal going but managed to cook the pork chops and hotdogs just fine
Read a little more of Summer Knight (Dresden Files) while eating
Then Matey slept in my arms from 1950 (7:50pm) until 2205 when his mommy went to bed and had me lay him by her...still asleep... she got a lot done: dishwasher, shower, hair, talk to Daddy on the phone, sort laundry, etc but I am a bit concerned that in the wee hours HE is going to be WIDE awake and Grammy will get a surprise visitor to 'party' with while Mommy sleeps! ;-}
Shower is calling me... don't use a hamburger helper box to get the charcoals going - yeesh!
xoxoxox

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

I will still be an early morning person!

Aunt Jennie is fun
and interesting


Until she tries to take out my eye! I need 'em both Aunt Jennie...


and spend lots of time with my grandson ;-} I took an awesome video of him this morning but it is too long to post ;-p So here are pictures from later in the day... at Grandma Sandy's with Aunt Jennie -

Mommie was trying to take a picture but Grammy had left the camera on video - oops!

Thursday, June 11, 2009

I will be so glad when my son-in-law starts blogging!

He gets me typing! from "Misconceptions of Wasted Years of Sleep" :

"The great healthcare debate

There has been talk that the United States healthcare system needs to be revamped. This post goes into two different takes on the U.S. healthcare system:

1) Viewpoint the first - The U.S. has the best healthcare in the world; just look at these stats-
-Men and women in the U.S. survive cancer at a rate of 65% (in England it's 46%)
-93% of those diagnosed with diabetes in the U.S. receive treatment within six months (in Canada only 43% do, and in the U.K. only 15% do)
-Seniors needing hip replacement get one within six months in the U.S. 90% of the time (in Canada only 43% do, and in the U.K. only 15% do)
-There are 71 MRI and CT scanners available in the U.S. per million people (in Canada there are 18 per million and in the U.K. there are only 14)
-11.7% of seniors in the U.S. with low incomes say they are in excellent health (in Canada only 5.8% of similar seniors say that)
-Basically, this viewpoint says socialized healthcare is great for when you break a bone or have a cold, but if you have a serious ailment, you are in trouble

2) Viewpoint the second - The U.S. healthcare system is broken; just look at these stats-
-The U.S. spends 15.4% of GDP on healthcare (the U.K. spends 8.1%, Canada spends 9.8%, France spends 10.5%, Spain spends 8.1%, and Europe as a whole spends 9.6%)
-The U.S. has 2.6 doctors per 1,000 people (the U.K. has 2.3, Canada has 2.1, France has 3.4, Spain has 3.3, and Europe as a whole has 3.9)
-The U.S. has 3.3 hospital beds per 1,000 people(the U.K. has 4.2, Canada has 3.6, France has 7.5, Spain has 3.8, and Europe as a whole has 6.6)
-The average age in the U.S. is 78.2 years(in the U.K. it is 79.4, in Canada it is 80.6, in France it is 80.6, in Spain it is 81, and in Europe as a whole it is 81.15)
-Basically, this viewpoint says that U.S. citizens are incurring an invisible healthcare tax by spending a higher amount of their GDP than other countries and must get ill more often than any other country in the West in order to achieve the stat of being the 41st longest living nation on earth; further uninsured individuals can end up with $5,000 emergency room bills for what should be a $50 office visit - thus, something must be broken

I personally think that there is truth to both sides of the argument, but I don't know what can be done to keep our high quality of healthcare while reducing the systems costs for the population as a whole and achieving a longer average age of living."
My response follows -
And whatever is broken the government has the ability to make worse... if the military healthcare system is any indication. In my youth and early adulthood I was a military dependent (23 1/2 yrs)

In those days civilian ER's had lesser wait times, you could get an appt much sooner at a civilian doctor, and you would get a doctor appropriate to your needs... my first pregnancy I saw a dermitologist for the entire time. Officers wives saw a GP, there was NO OB/Gyn. Now I have learned that the military farms out to civilian doctors any and all dependent care - Tricare - possible.

We had many good doctors and corpsmen and nurses and TONS of red tape and hoops to jump thru. Miss an appt and you couldn't get another one for two weeks... even if you were there early and it was a records snafu that held you up. We were having 6-8 hour waits in the ER when the rest of the world (civilians) refused to believe such a thing was happening - it was propaganda to hide the unfair benefits military families received - commissaries, base exchanges and FREE health care... my dad spent a year in Viet Nam as part of qualifying for that FREE health care. The 60's and 70's were very "us" vs "them" when it came to military and civilians near military installations.

I have to believe that government run healthcare would have all the rules, regulations and limitations that I grew up with - and then some since it would be on a far grander scale! Charges are all out of proportion, insurance knocks a % off the top automatically so doctors and facilities inflate the prices. I have been very fortunate in having doctors that acknowledge that fact and take a third or more off my bill because I have no insurance. In a government run system there is less latitude and if there is a sliding scale, the hoops and red tape appear.

I had 5 children, a monthly income of $865 and while the state would help my children with medical care, I did not qualify because my income was over 800/mo. I wish I was making it up. They presupposed that I was getting food stamps, subsidized rent, childcare and/or utilities assistance and would NOT accept proof that I was NOT getting any of the above. So the kids got free lunch at school, DSHS healthcare and I just stayed healthy. I found a job that paid more although I could not find one with insurance, I had been at home 20 years, no work history ;-}

Last year when I had life threatening medical problems, two separate issues, the state would not help if the charges could be paid off in 60 months on my current income (18,000/yr 2007, less than 16,000 in 2008 due to illness) and not a single doctor or provider would agree to carry payments for even 6 months. St Alphonsus Hospital was awesome and dropped the balance after I paid 500 of the 4,000 plus I owed them. I have not had the second issue taken care of, it has taken every cent to pay for the first one - which took two operations, not one... it happens, things are worse once they get in there! I will continue to save and then I will deal with the second issue, oh, and follow up on the first one (i.e. is the right kidney functioning at all?).

Hey, but I am able to work and am here to talk about my woes ;-}

Monday, June 8, 2009

Birthdays... won't really bother me.

Because I always looked younger than I was, I have never lied about my age... my problem was getting people to believe I was old enough to do whatever it was I wanted to do. Now that I am 54, 55 next month, it comes in handy because most folks cut me slack for being old ;-} Going grey early helps the illusion.
Except my boss who thought I was 60! Something about my having been married to his father and his mom is 61 so by default, I must be close to the same age. Yeesh! If that were true he ought to be easier on me on the job, eh?
I was waiting to post until I could put on one of the pictures we took on Mother's Day but Drox and I cannot find the camera anywhere and my son-in-law posted about his mother's birthday and her professed age... 29 1/2 and I was suddenly inspired to post anyway!
Ddonn is at Tiney's, Tiney is getting way more rest - and is getting her hair done tomorrow ! ! ! Matey is learning that structure actually makes for a happier life and Ddonn gets to drive a BIG pickup... I think thePirate is doing fine also (that'd be SPC, but since he is at the NCO academy I may be changing his name anyway)